Here are the first three guys who agreed to be interviewed.I think this is a pretty good window into the unfiltered mind of the married man. I introduce you to the Newlywed (try not to rain on his parade, he is in the honeymoon stage after what seems to have been a bad first marriage) who sounds a little ADHD in a lovable way, The Conflicted Guy (not that happy in his 16 year marriage but trying to make a go of it) who sounds like he is a little depressive in a lovable way (but get some therapy, it could help!I guess the one that currently sticks in my mind is the first time my youngest daughter and I spent the day together at the amusement park riding rollercoasters. Only problem with that scenario is I wouldn’t have my twin daughters and my life would likely not be as full as a result Thanks to my anonymous men.That was a great window into what guys may be thinking at a deep level. Please leave them some support in the comments, whether you have been through similar experiences or just to thank them for opening up their minds and hearts to this project.So what kind of women go after married men, and why?It may surprise you, but all romantic involvements aside, you may not know these women who pursue married men from your own friends and acquaintances.But I wondered: As marriage inches toward the take-it-or-leave-it category — for both sexes — and there are more never-married men between the ages of 40 and 44 than ever before (20.4 percent at last census count), is being a perpetual (hetero) bachelor still considered a little … “You can always judge a guy by what’s in his refrigerator,” she says.
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An anonymous woman shares that she has engaged in romantic relationships with three married men, but keeps her love life completely private from her friends, family, and social circles.“I do not consider myself a ‘home wrecker’ or even ‘the other woman,’ though those are the common names for women like me,” she says. (Besides gay men, of course, but that gets tricky.) There is more of a chase aspect with trying to date a married man than there is with trying to date a single guy.“More importantly, even when you are dating the married man, you’re still not entirely with him. Your actions together are also considered taboo – so there is a thrill in knowing you are being secretive and cannot get caught.”The anonymous woman adds, “Unlike some women who date married men, my biggest fear is if they ever say they want to leave their wife.
Part of the reason I date married men is because there is a lack of commitment.